Truth be told, I'm not a full time wearer of abaya...
I've just about worn it twice in public, but I have future intentions to ditch the jeans and make the switch.
Now, I understand that wearing such a garment is supposed to humble you and to not care for such vain matters -i.e. fashion BUT being a girl in this day 'n' age, it's only natural that we want to look presentable and feel happy in what we are wearing rather than feeling as if you'll just melt away in the crowd.
People have been forever expressing their personality through their clothing. For example; I tend to wear a lot of darker colours, this could possibly tell you that I am a shy person who doesn't appreciate a lot of attention? ...You are right.
So as future reference for myself, here are some ways to wear 'your personality' with your abaya whilst keeping it toned down (aka. nothing too glamorous) and more importantly MODEST :)
Check shirts are always stylish and pretty modest. I love the length in this one too
Hoodies are a Hijabi's best friend-Comfort, coverage and effortless style
Cardigans- Lots and lots of cardigans. Bold colours, textures and prints = perfect
COZY SWEATERS! Preferably the over-sized kind.
I really love the dusty pink, loose knit jumper I got from New Look. Admittedly it is a size 18 which is two sizes too big, but I don't care :)
Finally anything from smart blazers, jackets, printed t shirts have the opportunity to be incorporated with your abaya. Simpless
And I know it's hardly rocket science, but you never know who you may inspire....